I feel seriously tough tonight!
For a week, I’ve had a splinter festering. The culprit was a wooden fan.
I kept hoping it would work it’s way out– but it was burrowing deeper. Worse, it was underneath the skin; nothing was poking out.
Like most kids, I grew up with my Dad doing the minor surgery required in the past. We always used a needle and alcohol– usually at the kitchen table.
I could feel it had already been too long and knew I had to take action today.
I asked a co-worker who is a mother of two to appraise it: she suggested tweezers. Obviously I didn’t have the tools at work.
This evening, I called over and asked for my parents’ help.
I brought my own needle and alcohol pad wipes over.
With a new sewing needle wiped clean and sterilized, my Dad broke the skin and then used the needle to try and push it out by dragging the needle across it. It wasn’t working. It made me sad that he didn’t seem to know anymore how to fix it.
He’s always known exactly what to do– always able to make quick decisions.
Luckily, I was paying attention all those times as a kid. And *I remembered the routine he had shown me myriad times in my life. Plus, my hands are smaller. I can maneuver better.
But he did help me– with moral support. My Step-mom Diane, too. And I needed it.
He held my finger steady while I poked around with the needle to dig it out. I YELLED. Doesn’t matter what age you are, splinters are always a bitch!
Then I asked Diane for some tweezers and she went upstairs to loan me hers. As she returned, they were gleaming. Might as well have been a surgical instrument! She stood by.
I grasped the edge of that splinter and –with my LEFT hand, mind you!!– yanked!!
I GOT IT!
It wasn’t long, but was a good size. Underneath the skin. It was square and jagged. It appeared to have all come out intact, what a relief! I yelled in joy.
We worked as a team. They were happy to help and we all laughed about it.
Sometimes life gives us those little problems to remind us that we’re loved.
That it’s okay, and even good, to ask for help.
And maybe one day, I’ll be lucky enough to help my own kid excavate their splinter– just like my Dad taught me.